Author Archives: Jess

About Jess

It's about time we became comfortable with the uncomfortable.

I LIT-RA-LY HATE CINCO DE MAYO

Hey y’all. I’m going to rant for a hot minute. Bear with me. Being of Mexican descent, but not ‘looking Mexican’ has both it’s privileges and biases. I have ‘passing privilege,’ but ‘looking white’ means I’m not always accepted by … Continue reading

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A Helpful Tool for Identifying Alcoholism

**DISCLAIMER**  This is NOT all-inclusive, official, doctor-recommended, or the one-and-only way to identify alcoholism. This is my opinion based off of my experiences as an alcoholic in recovery for the past 9 months as well as someone who works in social … Continue reading

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10 Things Not to Say to an Alcoholic

Howdy folks! I was thinking the other day about some of the dumb shit things I’ve heard during my sobriety and thought that perhaps folks could benefit from a friendly reminder of things not to say to an alcoholic. I … Continue reading

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Oh yeah, I almost forgot. He was a crackhead too.

Howdy folks. It’s almost been a month since my last post and quite a good deal in the land of OkCupid has happened. I don’t want to write a novel, so I’ll just sum up the highlights by noting the … Continue reading

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I wish I could make this shit up.

Hi folks. You’re not going to believe it, but the OkCupid-er who asked how I am doing orally messaged me again. Keep in mind… I NEVER responded to his first message, so either he’s been having a conversation with me … Continue reading

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What. The. Fuck.

So I received this message the other day on OkCupid… I love bimbos. I wish I could be one myself, but that wouldn’t work since I’m male. I’d just be yet another transsexual freak who isn’t sexy or pretty but … Continue reading

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Earthlings, It was a hard decision to make, but I think I picked the right OkCupid message with which to start this blog. (Oh, I won’t ever tell you who any of these people are, so don’t bother asking.) The … Continue reading

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